Being Rich Doesn’t Make You Appealing to Women – It’s What You Do With It

You’ve done well in your career, and have a bursting bank account to show for it. You’ve worked hard, put in long hours, and sprouted grey hairs. In short, you’ve earned your money, and you want to enjoy your riches.

You’ve gone out and bought a beautiful home – complete with a pool, or maybe even a tennis court – and a summer house, and a luxury car. Life is complete, you think – except for some company. You would love to have a beautiful woman on your arm.

So you start looking on rich men dating sites. You look at profiles of many beautiful, accomplished, and sexy women. You start thinking that you can get any of them.

You could be wrong.

While media and movies might tell you that the rich man always gets the beautiful young woman, this isn’t always the case. While money certainly doesn’t make a man less attractive, it’s not the be-all-end-all for women. Today’s modern woman has her own career and is more independent than women in the past, so having a man’s funds isn’t mandatory. Here are some things that they are looking for:

Women want a man with great values.

Women actually care where that money comes from. If you’re a rich man, but you’re involved in illegal activity, that will make her run away. If you came by the money doing something unethical, that will also make her think twice. Women want you to do something noble, or at least legal, for a living.

Women want a man who is generous.

If you’re a rich man, but you’re cheap and never spend any of it, what’s the use of having the money in the bank? Are you hoarding the money so you can say that you have it? Women want you to do something good with the money. Give regularly to charities, support your favorite causes, and take your less wealthy friends out to dinner. Buy her gifts every so often. We’re not saying that you have to finance her shopping habit, but just don’t be a miser, especially when you can afford it.

Women want a man with a sense of adventure.

Let’s say you made your money on Wall Street, or as a lawyer or an investor. You probably have a very cautious personality. Don’t bring that boring, said state of mind into your personal life, or worse, into the bedroom. Take your earnings and go on some adventures. Go camping, go hiking, take a weekend trip to Vegas, fly her to Paris for the week or channel your youth at Walt Disney World. After all, you only live once.

Women want a man who isn’t stuffy.

If you’re very serious and working 24-7 to make your riches, that’s not good, either. Learn to let go, and to take holidays. Take the time to play, and to relax with her. What good is it if you have the money, but you don’t have time to enjoy it? She’ll soon look elsewhere for a company, and you won’t want that.

Remember, money isn’t everything. It makes life easier, and more comfortable, but it really is about how you use it.